Sundays are for self care and cooking is my therapy.
With headphones and dance music on, I get lost in an uninterrupted hour or two of prep for the week ahead.
Caregiving for T, a child with FASD, needs me to stay organized.
With work and school during the week then chores and T’s extra curricular activities on weekends, I am intentional about this sacred time to recharge.
Cooking is a simple way to feed my soul – and my family.
Prepping meals for the week ahead saves me time, now that I’m in the office three days a week – and usually tired when I get home.
It also saves money, as I only buy what we need and I’ve cut out buying lunches when I’m in the office; I pack leftovers instead.
Home-cooked meals are also often healthier.
I’m thankful for moments by myself, focused on an activity I enjoy. So I can reinvest the renewed energy back to T.
I protect this sacred time and tell T to buzz off when he tries to bother me 🤣 – unless he asks to help, which he sometimes does. 😇
Here are some recent cooking therapy adventures – some inspired by a Korean cookbook gifted by a dear friend.











You hit so many stones by cooking! It is a therapy!
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Thanks Ganga. 😊 For sure, a therapy for me. I can see it being a therapy for you and your son too!
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Wow!!!!!!! so many talents!!!!
Hubby and T are lucky that cooking is something that relaxes you-
Your food photos always amaze me!
Damn I wish I ate meat!
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Home cooked meals are often healthier and tastier too! A+ on the presentation of your meals. Everything looks so flavourful and visually appealing. Does T typically get involved with the meal prep and cooking?
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Thanks Linda. 😊 T seldom shows interest in helping but when he does, he gets enthusiastically involved in the process. I keep hoping his involvement in cooking will help broaden his interest to try new things out.
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Oh, this all looks amazing! What time is dinner?
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Thanks Margie. 😊 Next time you’re in Toronto, happy to do a food meetup!
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Your food looks yummy… while cooking is your therapy, the food could be someone’s therapy!
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Thanks Serena. I get stressed out cooking for other people outside my immediate family. The pressure! Haha. But it’s also nice when it’s appreciated by others. 😊
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Oh I love this! Everything you cooked looks delicious! And I also love the variety of the dishes: from Korean to Filipino. And you made char siu?! That’s very impressive. I agree that cooking can indeed be therapeutic, and it’s a good way to recharge ourselves. How sweet that T sometimes offers to help. When I was at his age, I don’t think helping my mom in the kitchen had ever crossed my mind. 😅
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Thanks Bama. Char siu was a lot of fun to make. I always thought it was some magical thing that made the meat red. 🤣
I still have not done an Indonesian dish and it’s on my wishlist to tackle!
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Love that you have your sacred time — and that it feeds you on so many levels. How interesting that you demystified the BBQ pork. Absolutely gorgeous meals – your family is lucky that cooking is your go-to restorative trick!! Have a great week! ❤ ❤ ❤
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Thanks Wynne. 😊 The hubby appreciates the effort. T couldn’t care less. 🤣 I hope you enjoy your week too!
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I am speechless, Ab! These dishes look so delicious! I am happy for you that you have space for this great self-care! And I am sure your family is happy as well😋
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Thanks Kathrin! It’s my therapy routine. 😊 Just like I know art is a wonderful creative outlet for you.
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this is truly good for your soul and for your belly (for all of your family’s, really). i love how there’s dance music going on, leftovers, and every dish looks delish, this is an all-around win!!
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Thanks Beth. The dance music definitely helps with getting me in the zone! 😊
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There’s a future podcast topic of session! T and you cooking. Each week something new. And not just the recipe and directions but stories about that particular recipe. Move over Stanley stucci. The Ab and T show as sounds amazing!!!!
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Thanks Brian. I wouldn’t go as far as Stanley Tucci but I do appreciate the vote of confidence! 😊 A podcast over cooking would be so much fun. Thanks for the idea!
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Ooh, wow! Thanks for this Ab!😁
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Thanks Tammy. 😊
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So when are you opening your restaurant Ab? How about putting one just south of Denver Colorado. My family would love that 🙂
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Thanks Deb. If we ever get an opportunity to connect in person, we’ll make it a cooking one! 😊
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Excellent!
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Oh wow, Ab. That food all looks amazing! Cooking is a terrific way to unwind. It’s also a creative outlet that’s often overlooked when we think about creativity. I’m happy to hear that you protect this time.
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Thanks Michelle. It’s a creative outlet for sure, in addition to therapy. 😊 occasionally, I love going to the market, like St Jacob’s, and getting inspiration too. Definitely sacred time to protect!
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Cooking is the best–so nourishing for both the body and soul. Everything you made looks incredibly delicious!!
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Thanks Erin. For sure, an outlet for both the body and soul. 😊
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I like the way you say it…cooking is the simple way to feed the soul. Thank you for featuring these yummy Korean recipes. Have a blessed week ahead Ab.🙂
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Thanks Arlene! I’ve been getting into Korean cooking lately and it’s fun to demystify the recipes especially the “secret sauces.” 😊
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My pleasure Ab. Iba talaga ang Asian food ano?🙂
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I don’t speak Tagalog! 🤣 But if I think what you’re asking, I like Asian food. I also try to make other types of food too!
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Sorry Ab, I didn’t know. Yes, that is what I mean, loving Asian food. I like Japanese cuisine too.🙂
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Thankfully, I saw a familiar food in all the viands: pancit bihon🤩😁 it looks like there’s a birthday party, Ab. Invite us🤭 so so yum!
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Thanks Hazel. The bihon was a fun one to learn. It’s so simple and yummy. Birthdays everyday! 😊
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It all looks delicious, Ab. These days I think anything dish home cooked is healthier than restaurant meals. They use too many ‘additives’. A plain dinner salad isn’t even a safe choice anymore. Have a great rest of your Sunday!
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Thanks AnneMarie. For sure, you can relate with your own health journey. Homecooked meal is less salt and oil and overall more healthy for sure! 😊
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Ab, these look incredible. ❤️
I’m also glad you protect this time of selfcare. It truly is needed, especially for parents who love and care for children who have deep need. I hope you have a wonderful Sunday and enjoy your meals in the week ahead.
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Thank you LaDonna. It’s important to protect the sacred time for self care. I hope you have a wonderful week ahead too! 😊
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❤️❤️
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